Are you missing out on social gatherings because you might have a people phobia? Do you want to enjoy interactions with others and not worry about the past or worry about what might happen?
The hardest part for most people is admitting they have a problem in the first place. It takes courage to put your hand up and ask for help.
In a single long session, Adam can start to disolve your concerns at interacting with others using techniques such as Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), Thought Field Therapy and Hypnotherapy to dive deep into your subconscious mind and treat your social phobia or fear of people at the very root no matter if a mild anxiety to more severe cases.
Do you ever experience this?
- Not knowing what to say
- Fear of being criticised
- Unable to make eye contact
- Worrying about meeting new people
- Being afraid to use the phone or speak in front of others
- Being afraid to eat or drink in front of others
- Worrying about your appearance and not looking as good as others
- Afraid of being ridiculed or laughed at
- Mind going blank
- Fear of those with authority
- Being afraid or showing symptoms of people phobia
- Fear of being judged
- Worry of not being good enough
If you suffer from social phobia or a fear of people then you might try to avoid social situations where you think you will be embarrassed, awkward or have a hard time interacting with others. People phobia can make you miss out on activities in life, making new friends and developing important relationships.
Life is Relationships
What is this negative feeling?
More technically, social phobia is a fear of being judged and evaluated by other people. Those who have a fear of people want to be included. They want to make friends and be invited to social gatherings but they are perceived to be shy, quiet, aloof or disinterested.
Having this people phobia can often be perceived as being unfriendly but in fact, those who suffer from social phobia are the complete opposite. It is their people phobia that holds them back.
Usually, those who suffer from social phobia or people phobia experience extreme distress in situations such as social gatherings, being the centre of attention and talking in groups. It can even cause nervousness in simple tasks such as speaking on the phone, paying for shopping or sometimes any form of communication with others.
People phobia can also cause you to get embarrassed easily and feel insecure in social situations with a feeling of not knowing what to say. Your mind can go completely blank even though you want to join in with conversations. The bottom line is, having people phobia and social phobia can make you very unhappy and in some cases lead to depression if not resolved.
Symptoms can include:
- Racing heart
- Dry mouth
- Feeling weak
- Trouble breathing
- Mind going blank
In severe cases, social phobia and fear of people can lead to a full-blown panic attacks, which might require immediate medical attention. Having a fear of people might encourage you to self-medicate in order to “loosen up” prior to a situation that you know will make you nervous. This is only a quick fix and self-medicating can cause all sorts of long-term health problems and become a real issue in itself.
I have concerns engaging others, What help is available?
Many doctors prescribe anti-anxiety drugs to help those with social phobia. But this is a short-term fix. Hypnotherapy on the other hand is a long-lasting treatment. Adam will use special techniques to put you in a deep relaxation state so that he can then explore your subconscious mind. Here, he can discover the root causes of your fear of people and change your future responses to social situations.
Our ‘beliefs’ govern our whole reality
Adam can guide you to change your negative internal beliefs into positive ones. This will transform your confidence and self-esteem. Hypnotherapy for treating social phobia and fear of people can help you identify the triggers that cause your anxiety, understand them and help you move on so that a fear of people does not control your life.
Hypnotherapy for treating social phobia will help you take back control of your life and enable you to face social situations head on with confidence and ease which is essential for a happy fulfilled life.
Social Awkwardness to Socially Savy
Hi, Im Adam Cumberland and It can sometimes feel vulnerable or a weakness asking for help but its essential if you want to change your life, I use to have these troubles years ago myself and now I socialise and communicate with everyone at any time. I even met my wife walking along Oxford Street.
We are all in control of our own destiny but only you can decide on the course you take. Having social phobia might mean that you’re nervous about picking up the phone. Thats natural…but if I could do it then so can you.
What are the benefits of hypnotherapy?
- Focus on the positive rather than the negative
- Boost your self-esteem
- Eliminate physical symptoms of social phobia and fear of people
- Change negative self beliefs and thought patterns into positives
- Help you understand your thought patterns
- Regain control of your life and stop your social phobia controlling you
- Instil self-confidence
- Ignite motivation and a first for life
During your 3 hour single hypnotherapy session, you will be deeply relaxed, almost in a trance like state. This makes you more susceptible to suggestions. It is when you are in this state, that I can change your thought patterns deep in your subconscious so that your fear of people will fade away.
Having hypnotherapy to treat people phobia will separate the memory of any traumatic events with the emotions associated with it. This means when similar events occur, you will no longer feel the negative emotions that you previously associated with it. Instead you will feel a ‘wanting’ to engage with others rather than ‘trying’.
Wising you great relationships.
If you want to change your life; if you want to be more confident with high self-esteem; if you want to talk to people with ease, walk down the street comfortably and join in with other people, or attend social events without fear, then get in touch with us today on 020 7586 9350 because I will help you take control of your life and make your people phobia a thing of the past.
After just one session, you will feel your fear of people disappearing and completely drain away from you. You will be left with a feeling of positivity and your desire to interact socially with others will be transformed.
“I’ve suffered from people phobia my whole life. I found it hard just to leave the house without the thought that everyone was looking at me. Adam helped me overcome my fears.
He understood completely just how shy I was and straight away in the first session my negative thoughts disappeared. I’m now so much more confident and I can’t see this confidence going away.
I no longer have a fear of people and I leave the house with my head held high.”
“I was sceptical at first because I’ve had to deal with social phobia my whole life. I’ve missed out on parties, weddings, holidays and I’ve just been wasting my life. I knew I had to get help.
Adam straight away put me at ease. It was good to talk to someone who had experienced a fear of people themselves. After my first session it was like everything suddenly became clear.
I felt happy. I felt confident about myself and no longer wanted to hide away. I haven’t missed a party since because my people phobia is just no longer there. I can’t recommend Adam enough.”
“I’m the youngest of a large family so my older siblings usually dominated every conversation growing up. I was blamed for everything and bullied at school so these things really knocked my confidence.
I became jealous of other people because they all seemed so outgoing and I was stuck being painfully shy. I got in contact with Adam because enough was enough. My people phobia stopped me from joining in – even with my own family.
Adam really helped me overcome my social phobia. I’ve honestly never felt better and I now feel like I fit in. I feel like a confident, outgoing person and I’m no longer the quiet one of the family.”
“Some people might think hypnosis is just a fad or that it won’t work but don’t believe any of that. It really does work and I know because I’ve tried it.
I had one long session with Adam for my social phobia. I had a fear of people, simple as that, but now, I just don’t. My self-esteem is high, my confidence is high and I just feel so good about myself. I used to be so shy that my heart would race every time I approached the counter in a shop or if I had to phone someone up.
Now I do those things without even thinking and it’s all thanks to Adam. I couldn’t have done it without him. Fear of people – I don’t know what that is anymore.”